When I began this review for 'Find A Shemale Lover,' a website specifically for trans and non-binary folks, I was cautiously optimistic.
Find A Shemale Lover is a free online dating site for shemales and those wanting to date transgender shemales. If you are already a member of TSDating.com you can simply use the same login information as they are sister sites and profiles are shared between the two.
The interface is sleek and intuitive, a welcome change from the clunky designs of some other niche sites. The profile creation process is refreshingly inclusive, offering a wide range of gender identities and sexual orientations. It also allows for detailed self-descriptions, including pronouns and preferred terms, which helps filter out those who aren't serious or respectful.
What truly sets Find A Shemale Lover apart is its community focus. It's not just about finding a date; it's about connecting with people who understand your experiences. The forums and group chats are a treasure trove of support and shared experiences, from navigating hormone replacement therapy to finding trans-friendly stylists.
My experience with the dating side of the website has been overwhelmingly positive. The people I've matched with have been kind, respectful, and genuinely interested in getting to know me. The emphasis on shared experiences creates a sense of safety and understanding that I haven't found on other platforms. There's less of that initial 'getting-to-know-you' awkwardness because there's an inherent understanding that comes with shared identities.
However, Find A Shemale Lover isn't without its flaws. The user base, while growing, is still relatively small, which can limit your options depending on your location. And, like any online community, there are occasional trolls or bad actors, although the moderation team seems to be pretty active in addressing these issues.
Overall, Find A Shemale Lover has been a breath of fresh air. It's a space where I can be myself without constantly having to educate or defend my identity. While it's not perfect, it's a significant step in the right direction for trans and non-binary dating. If you're looking for a supportive and inclusive community, and maybe even a date, Find A Shemale Lover is definitely worth checking out.
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